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Language of Kings

Men’s conferences | Marriage Retreats | Workshops | Ministries

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a message that transforms

A bold call for men to lead with purpose, authority, and love.

Henry confronts the crisis of manhood in today’s culture,

and calls men to a higher standard of leadership in their homes. His message is not only inspiring — it’s deeply convicting. He holds men accountable to a standard that many were never taught and have rarely seen modeled, while offering clear steps to walk it out with strength and humility.

Your audience is left with real truth, and real transformation.

“Your marriage reflects your relationship with God — if one is out of order, the other will follow.”. 

-Henry Doss

What the “Language of Kings” teaches:

Importance of roles in marriage

Why husbands have to lead and wives have to submit, in successful marriages.

Conflict resolution begins with the male

Husbands are responsible for fixing the marriage. You cant wear the crown and the skirt.

Defeating temptation

If a man cant control himself, then he is controlled by everything else.

What leading with love looks like

Expectations, leadership, authority, and your teachings must come from a place of love.

You must know your purpose, in order to lead

Your purpose comes with provision, that directs your entire marriage and family.

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Speaker Bio

Henry Doss is a faith-filled, truth-telling voice who is challenging men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders God designed them to be.

With over 20 years of teaching experience, he delivers bold, practical, and biblically grounded guidance that speaks directly to men who are ready to rise in their homes and relationships.

Through his signature message, Language of Kings, Henry confronts the crisis of manhood in today’s culture and calls men to lead with both authority and love. His message is not only inspiring — it’s deeply convicting. He holds men accountable to a standard that many were never taught and have rarely seen modeled, while offering clear steps to walk it out with strength and humility.

Henry is known for bringing real-life marriage challenges into the light — everything from accountability and stepping into their authority and masculinity to intimacy and emotional connection — and addressing them through God’s Word. His teaching is raw but redemptive, scriptural but relatable. He isn’t afraid to touch taboo topics, and it’s one of the reasons husbands — and their wives — applaud his voice.

Together with his wife, Victoria, Henry has helped thousands of couples find clarity, healing, and direction through their content, events, and online platforms. 

Whether he’s speaking to a room of men, married couples, or young adults preparing for their future, Henry’s message is clear:
God’s design for marriage still works — when men lead the way.

Lasting impact

What audiences say they feel:

  • Seen and spiritually understood
  • Encouraged to embrace their God-given role
  • Equipped with practical steps, not just motivation
  • Like someone finally said what they couldn’t put into words
  • Inspired that their marriage isn’t beyond repair
  • Ready to lead, love, and live differently

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